About Me

Hey, babes. Spencer here.

Pinnacle Mountain, Arkansas :)
I write for anyone who wants psychological insights applied to the struggles of daily life. I have a Bachelor's degree in Psychology, go to therapy, and share my experiences. I wish my readers healing and growth.

When I'm not writing or working, I'm hanging out with friends, trying new coffee bars, karaokeing, hiking, or watching Schitt's Creek. My dogs are cute. My family is tight-knit, and I make a delicious, spicy spaghetti.


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